We will not be finding out!
Well it has yet again been over a week since I have updated - I still don’t have an appetite, nausea comes back from time to time for just a few hours, heartburn is getting more frequent but the Tums are always nearby and I can’t seem to be able to keep down as much food as pre-pregnancy. Last Wednesday I had an AFP (alpha-fetoprotein) blood test done (don’t know the results yet) and when they weighed me I still had not gained nor lost so according to their charts I am still -4lbs as far as weight gain for this pregnancy though I know there is an extra 6lbs they don’t have on record from my first month and a half of pregnancy (since they didn’t see me till week 7) and I ate even less those first few weeks because I was soo sick and hadn’t gotten a hang of ways to be able to keep my food down and make the nausea go away. I don’t know how many people I wanted to kill since I kept hearing over and over “Eat Saltines” well Saltines made me even more sick - the dryness and saltiness of those crackers would almost immediately put me into the dry heaves! Ginger and Jasmine were my best friend during then and I still quite enjoy them now since I would only do them when I needed to in order to not overdo it.
Last night I had my favorite meal - vermicelli rolls - Bryan picked up a steak that we grilled then sliced, boiled the vermicelli and had the bowl of water and rice paper ready to go with fresh mint and fish sauce. I have really gotten a hang on being able to get the large rice paper softened without breaking it or having it stick together, I end up doing most of Bryan’s too since he tends to have a harder time. This also makes him more willing to have it more often since it makes it easier on him as well.
I’m waiting on being able to feel this baby move, they say by now I should be able to feel “flutters” but I haven’t felt them, either that or I’m not sure quite what they will feel like. The ligament pain isn’t so bad the last few days but if I walk too much I tend to feel it later in that day. The belly is starting to show where others are noticing it but I’m still fitting in my normal clothes (hence the weight gain issue mentioned above) but according to one of my co-workers - since the belly is getting bigger and I’m not gaining weight that means somewhere else in my body must be loosing it.
Next Wednesday we have our “Big Ultrasound” and no we will not be finding out the sex of the baby though I’m sure they will give us more photos!
Well I have to get back to work, things have been crazy on this project and by the time I go home I just go to bed - hence why I have not been updating this as regularly as I was before, but I will try to every couple of days even if it is a quick “drive by”